Manual gearboxes are available across all the years.VW haven't went down the route of only offering DSG on any model just yet.
Handling is very subjective, but it's easy to keep out of the hedge even in the wet due to good traction offered by the AWD.
The majority of the criticism on handling is that there can be a fair bit of understeer due due a heavy V6 lump up front and the Haldex having a FWD bias.
Best to drive one though and make up your own mind as "The Internet" doesn't know all the answers